I’ve never wondered what the difference in sexual behavior of men and women is, and I never even tried to understand the influence of M...
I’ve never wondered what the difference in sexual behavior of men and women is, and I never even tried to understand the influence of Mars or Venus on it. Neither have I ever thought about why men think with their head while women think with their heart.
However, last week my girlfriend and I went to bed, and while my appetite was starting to grow, she suddenly told me, ’I think I don’t want to. Could you just lie next to me and hold me in your hands?’
I asked her, ’What?! Honey, what’s that all about?’
And she replied to me in a way that every man fears hearing more than anything else in his life.
’You think of me as only a sex object for satisfying your physical needs. Whatever happens in my heart and soul, whatever my emotional needs are as a woman, you don’t care about them.’
With these words, she looked at my perplexed face and added, ’Why can’t you love me for what I am, without regard to what happens in our bedroom?’
I kept my silence, but got the point — there was nothing for me that night, so I turned over to my side and fell asleep. The next day, however, I decided to take leave from work to spend some time together with her. We had a great breakfast and went to some huge mall, whatever its name was, with a whole lot of different departments.
She walked from one store to another, tried on expensive clothes, and I was always at her side.
She couldn’t make up her mind, and I just said, ’Take all of these.’ She also wanted shoes to go with every one of her new dresses, and I said it was fine with me if she took everything she wanted. Then we went to a jewelry shop, and there she chose a pair of diamond earrings.
What I want to say is, she was rather excited by what was going on. She probable thought I was so shaken by our talk the night before that I was feeling on the brink of a crash and was desperate to prevent it. She actually tried to push it, I suppose, because she wanted to buy a tennis racket, although she didn’t even have an idea of how to play tennis. And you could see her tremble with ecstasy when I said, ’That’s one cool thing, hon, take it, sure!’
After that she looked as though close to the peak of sexual pleasure. A huge smile bloomed on her face, and she purred, ’I think that’s all...We can go to the cash desk, sweetheart.’
I could hardly wait for that moment for all that time, and finally, with a badly concealed impatience, I solemnly replied, ’No, honey, I don’t think I want to!’
Hearing that, my girlfriend changed her countenance, and her jaw actually dropped. In a choking voice, she managed to rasp, ’WHAT?!’
Then I said, ’Love, I only want you to hold all of this in your hands, and that’s it, but I have a feeling that you don’t really care for my financial capabilities as a man, you only think of your own needs as a woman!’ And exactly at the moment when I thought she was going to kill me, and quite literally so, I added with genuine affection, ’Why can’t you love me for what I am, and not for the things I buy for you?’
Somehow, I reckon there will be nothing for me tonight, either.
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