Females tend to rate intercourse as more pleasurable based on the strength of the bond they felt with their partner—not by the strength ...
Females tend to rate intercourse as more pleasurable based on the strength of the bond they felt with their partner—not by the strength of their orgasm.
That’s why no man should ask his partner whether she had an orgasm. You may think you’re being a good guy by asking. After all, climaxing feels amazing, and you want her to experience that, too.
But the very question shifts the focus from the enjoyment of the entire act to one pivotal moment.
So instead of worrying about the end performance, shift your attention to the bond she desires throughout the act. Everything from the motion, the rhythm, where you touch her and how can intensify her arousal and create intimacy.
Maintaining an open dialogue about the things you both enjoy most in bed helps keep your sex life fresh and exciting, and keeps you both coming back for more.
Source: http://www.menshealth.com/